Afraid of What Comes Next?

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“What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” — Psalm 56:3 (KJV)

When You Cannot See the Road Ahead, You Can Still Trust the One Who Can

“What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” — Psalm 56:3 (KJV)

 

     There are moments when the hardest thing about tomorrow is simply that you don’t know what it holds. You may know something’s changing. You might even know that something is coming. Maybe you’re waiting for an answer…. A relationship could be falling apart. Maybe the job is ending, and the bills are piling up. Maybe someone you love is walking down a road you can’t follow them down. Perhaps you’ve done everything you know to do, prayed every prayer you know to pray, and you are still standing in a place where you cannot see what happens next.

And that can be terrifying.

     Sometimes fear does not scream. Sometimes it sits quietly beside you at night and whispers: What if it gets worse? What if the answer is no? What if they leave? What if I fail? What if I cannot handle what comes next? And perhaps the question underneath all of them is the one we’re almost afraid to say aloud: God, what if tomorrow hurts?

Faith Does Not Mean You Never Feel Afraid

     Sometimes Christians become ashamed of fear. We think that if our faith were stronger, we wouldn’t be scared. We imagine that trusting God means walking into uncertainty without trembling. But David did not say, “I am never afraid.” He said, “What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” — Psalm 56:3 (KJV). There’s a tremendous difference.

      David acknowledged the fear. Then he decided where he would carry it. Faith is not always the absence of trembling. Sometimes faith is trembling, hands still reaching toward God. Sometimes faith is even lying awake at 2:00 in the morning and whispering, “Jesus, I still trust You.” Other times, faith is taking one more step when you can’t see where the road leads. Or simply refusing to let fear become your master.

Fear Wants You to Live Tomorrow Before It Arrives

     One of fear’s cruelest tricks is making us suffer through things that haven’t happened yet. Your mind writes conversations that have never taken place. It imagines doors closing that are still open and rehearses losses you haven’t experienced. It prepares funerals for things that are still alive. And before tomorrow ever arrives, fear has already made you live through a dozen different versions of it. Jesus said, “Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself.” — Matthew 6:34 (KJV).

     Jesus wasn’t pretending tomorrow would always be easy. He was teaching us that tomorrow was never meant to be carried today. There is grace for today. And when tomorrow becomes today, there will be grace waiting there too.

 

You Do Not Need Tomorrow’s Strength Today

     Maybe that’s what you need to hear right now. You do not have to know how you’ll survive something that hasn’t happened. And you do not need next month’s strength tonight or the courage for a conversation that may never happen. You do not need the answer to every question before you take the next step. God hasn’t asked you to carry your entire future at once. He has asked you to walk with Him today.

You Do Not Need Tomorrow’s Strength Today

     Maybe that’s what you need to hear right now. You do not have to know how you’ll survive something that hasn’t happened. And you don’t need next month’s strength tonight or the courage for a conversation that may never happen. You don’t need the answer to every question before you take the next step. God hasn’t asked you to carry your entire future at once. He’s asked you to walk with Him today.

     Remember Israel in the wilderness. God gave them manna—but only enough for the day. They couldn’t stockpile tomorrow’s provision because God was teaching them something deeper than how to gather bread. He was teaching them to trust the Provider.

     But there’s something else worth noticing. When some of the Israelites tried to save the manna for the following day, it spoiled. It bred worms and began to stink (Exodus 16:19–20). Yet when God instructed them to gather enough for two days before the Sabbath, that same manna remained fresh (Exodus 16:22–24). The difference wasn’t the bread. It was whether they were following God’s direction or trying to secure tomorrow on their own terms.

     And perhaps we do something similar. God provides for us today, but our fear of tomorrow drives us to take that provision and try to stretch it beyond what He intended. We try to manufacture tomorrow’s security out of today’s blessings. And in doing so, we may lose the very peace His provision was meant to give us. Not because God’s provision has failed, but because we’ve allowed our fear of what comes next to overshadow our trust in the One who provides.

Maybe you can’t see tomorrow’s provision because you’re not standing in tomorrow yet. That doesn’t mean God will not be there.

What If the Thing You Fear Actually Happens?

     This is where comforting words can sometimes feel too easy. Because perhaps you’re not afraid of something imaginary. Maybe there is a real possibility that tomorrow will hurt. The diagnosis might be bad. The relationship might end. The job might disappear. The person you love might make the wrong decision. Or the door you desperately want opened might remain closed.

      Christian faith does not require us to pretend painful things never happen…. They do. But the promise of God has never been that we’ll understand every road. The promise is that we will not walk it alone. “When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee…” — Isaiah 43:2 (KJV). Notice what God did not say. He didn’t say there would never be waters. He said, “I will be with thee.” That changes everything.

      The greatest security you have concerning tomorrow is not knowing what tomorrow contains. It is knowing Who will already be there when you arrive.

God Is Already Standing in the Place You Are Afraid to Enter

  • You cannot see tomorrow…. God can.
  • You do not know how the story unfolds…. God does.

You are looking through a doorway into darkness, trying desperately to make out shapes in a room you haven’t entered. But God is already there. There is no doctor’s office where you can enter that He has not gone before you.

  • There is no courtroom.
  • No hospital room.
  • No empty house.
  • No difficult conversation.
  • No unemployment line.
  • No graveside.
  • No new beginning.
  • No ending.
  • No wilderness.

     There is nowhere tomorrow can take you where Jesus cannot meet you. David wrote: “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me…” — Psalm 23:4 (KJV). The comfort was not that David knew where every turn in the valley led. 

The comfort was the Shepherd walking beside him.

 

Maybe You Are Standing Between What Was and What Will Be

     Some of the most frightening places in life are the spaces between chapters. What was is gone and what will be, hasn’t arrived. And you are standing somewhere in the middle. You cannot go backward. You don’t know how to move forward… So you find yourself waiting, maybe feeling stuck. And waiting can feel like God has stopped writing…. He has not.

     A blank space between chapters does not mean the story is over. You may not understand this season yet. You may not know why God allowed this road or see what He’s building from what feels broken. But you do not need to understand the entire story to trust the Author.

 

Give God the Future You Keep Trying to Control

     Fear often grows from our desperate need to know. We want the plan. We want the timeline. And we want the answer. We convince ourselves that God should show us the next ten steps before we’re willing to take the first one. But Scripture says, “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” — Proverbs 3:5–6 (KJV).

     Sometimes God gives us a map while other times He gives us only enough light for the next step. Sometimes that’s intentional. Because if you could see the entire road, perhaps you would trust the road. Instead, God is teaching you to trust Him.

 

Tonight, You Are Still Here

     If you’re reading this with tears in your eyes because you truly don’t know what happens next, remember something. You made it to this moment. There were days you didn’t know how you would survive before…. But you are here. There were prayers you could barely speak, but God heard them. There were nights you thought would never end…. Morning came. There were moments when you couldn’t see a way forward. Yet somehow, one step at a time, you kept moving.

     Maybe tonight you don’t need a five-year plan. Maybe you do not even need a five-day plan. Maybe you simply need enough faith for the next five minutes.

  • Breathe.
  • Pray.
  • Take the next step.
  • Then another.

God is not asking you to be fearless. He’s asking you to trust Him while you are afraid.

 

Tomorrow Belongs to God

     You do not know what tomorrow holds. But tomorrow has never belonged to you. It belongs to God. So release the conversation you keep rehearsing and the answer you’re trying to predict. Release the person you can’t control and the outcome you cannot guarantee. Release the future you keep trying to carry and place it into hands that were pierced for you. And when fear whispers, “But what if everything changes?” Remind your heart, “Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and today, and forever.”
— Hebrews 13:8 (KJV).

  • Whatever comes next, He will still be God.
  • Whatever comes next, His grace will still be sufficient.
  • Whatever comes next, His Word will still be true.
  • Whatever comes next, you will not have to face it without Him.

So you do not have to solve tomorrow tonight. You only have to place tomorrow into the hands of Jesus.

And then take one more step.

A Prayer for the Person Who Is Afraid of Tomorrow

Lord God,

     I am afraid. I do not know what comes next, and I wish I did. My mind keeps running ahead of me, imagining things I can’t control and preparing for pain that has not even arrived. Lord, I am tired of carrying tomorrow. So I give it to You.

  • I give You the answer I am waiting for.
  • I give You the person I am worried about.
  • I give You the door I am afraid will close.
  • I give You the change I never wanted.
  • I give You the future I cannot see.

     And when I’m tempted to pick it all back up again, remind me that Your hands are stronger than mine. Give me enough grace for today. And give me enough courage for the next step. And if tomorrow brings something difficult, meet me there. If tomorrow brings something beautiful, help me receive it with gratitude. If tomorrow brings something I never expected, remind me that You were not surprised.

Teach my heart to say, even while it trembles, “What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” I do not know what comes next. But I know You. And tonight, that is enough.

In Jesus’ name we pray.

Amen.

 

Perhaps You’ll enjoy another article from this series, When Fear takes hold: Finding peace and courage in God;

When Fear Takes Hold: Finding Peace and Courage in God

 

 or  maybe, When Your Mind Won’t Stop Racing;

When Your Mind Won’t Stop Racing

 

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